Survival Tips for International Students
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- When you feel "overwhelmed", you should talk to people. One on one especially with someone who has the time and patience to listen, and then gradually into groups where you will meet new people". Or you may want to "hang out with people from a common background, other international students who can empathize with your feelings". While designing the orientation program, the International Programs Office should provide relaxation sessions such as social/tea/coffee hours, movie night, or "buddy night" for international students.
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- To prepare for "homesickness". Students recommend buying international phone cards as a ‘must-have' because talking to loved ones can really strengthens you through hard times. Also, bringing some memorabilia, photos, posters, music, or artwork from your country can make the transition as smooth as possible. The more you can imitate the feeling of home in your room, the better you will be able to cope with homesickness. You can also keep yourself occupied with studies, work, by hanging out with friends, or volunteering in student or community organizations. The busier you are, the less you will think of home.
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- Be patient and open-minded. It takes time to "use" a new language, "slang", or to get used to the food, customs, and "live in a culture". "Don't hesitate to ask questions. Americans are always friendly and willing to offer help". "Those who are ashamed to ask will eventually lose their way". Don't be afraid to talk to people. Try to initiate a conversation at appropriate times. Sometimes a simple American greeting like "what's up?" or "what's cooking?", and a "high-five" gesture can go a long way in "fitting-in". It shows your effort of learning the culture.
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- Stay active and healthy, get involved, and be inclusive. Although you may feel comfortable speaking your language, hanging out with friends from your own country, and participating in the international student organization, try to include Americans in your activity or discussion. Speak English when there are other students around, and avoid building an "exclusive club" of your group. Be proud to be your cultural ambassador. Americans are eager to learn from you about your culture. Eat, sleep and exercise to stay both physically and mentally healthy. This will sustain a positive attitude while adjusting and adapting to a new culture
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